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If Only a Parent’s Love Could Cure Addiction

By the time your child has been through substance use disorder (SUD) treatment 18 times, love is no longer the issue. In fact, love—unchecked, unstructured, and desperate—can become part of the illness’s leverage. Addiction will exploit a parent’s love. It will lie, manipulate, steal, and, in some cases, kill. Every parental instinct to rescue, soothe, and protect is activated—and tragically, many of those instincts, left unexamined, can cause harm. With a spouse, boundaries are painful but possible. With a child, it is different. Your heart lives outside your chest. You still see the chubby three-year-old with sticky fingers and a wide smile. That emotional imprint never leaves, and it creates a kind of blindness. Without tools, parents default to what feels like compassion but is often dangerous empathy. So what do you do when SUD treatment fails again and again? Reframing “Failure” Multiple treatment episodes do not mean failure. They

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Blog Hero: Econ 101

Econ 101

Just about 32 years ago I graduated from Saint Vincent College (SVC) in Latrobe, PA. I’d transferred from William & Mary—much to my father’s chagrin.

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Blog Hero: Project YOU

Project YOU

A new client joined the ranks of PNG this month and as I typically do—when I see something really interesting that I know they’ll relate

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Blog Hero: Hope for 2013

Hope for 2013

As we near the end of 2012, a difficult twelve months for many Americans both personally and professionally, a Forbes article by Kevin Kruse caught

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Blog Hero: Nun Surfing: On Taking Chances

On Taking Chances

On nearly my 48th birthday I did something a little crazy—I jumped out of a plane at 14,000 feet, yep more than 2 ½ miles

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Blog Hero: Entrepreneurs Say

Sh*t Entrepreneurs Say

Jeff Haden has captured some hilarious truth in a recent article in “Inc” focused on things that entrepreneurs says Sh*t Entrepreneurs Say. After years of

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Blog Hero: Now Do What I Say

The Punching Nun Blog

We’re a Team Damn It…Now Do What I say! Valuable information I never heard in graduate school but learned on the job(s) <wife, mother and

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